"Being scared of the dentist is extremely common. If you are here, you are not alone.
Welcome to Fear The Dentist No More where I empower you as a dental patient to safely take charge of your fear and any embarrassment of your fear - in the comfort of your own home!

This means you get to calmly walk through the door to the dentist, feel healthy and have the confidence and smile you long for."

Helena Alder

Dentist & Dental Anxiety Coach, Owner

What if there was a methodology, once put into practice, that could help you safely and quickly take charge of your fear of the dentist and help you achieve the smile, the confidence and the peace of mind you have longed for?

What if there was a road you could take to set FREE your fear of the dentist, would you take it? 

When you learn how to take charge of your fear of the dentist and let go of any embarrassment, you get to empower and prepare yourself before walking through the door to the dentist and feel more in control and calm because of it.


You’ll start to feel more confident and happier in yourself and much more at ease with having regular dental check-ups and treatments. You can start to let go of any niggles in the back of your mind about your health and dental well-being.


Your goals of getting a more beautiful smile or simply seeing the dentist every 6 months for a regular check-up becomes much more doable and not such a big deal. You get to stop wasting energy worrying about seeing the dentist – feel more energised and happy.


Even your relationships will transform as you will significantly let go of the feeling of being embarrassed about your fear, and your friends, family and dentist get to see a happier and more confident you!

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"Working with Helena on my dental fears was an absolute joy. I shared with her some really vulnerable truths that I hadn’t shared with anyone before and these truths were held with professionalism, respect and compassion.

I also enjoyed the process of using Internal Family Systems to give voice to the different parts of me that were connected to my dental fears and she also shared some really incredible mindset / practical tips for dealing with anxiety in the chair.


Highly recommended for anyone who wants to run a mile at the mere sound of the word, “dentist”."

Louise, 36 UK

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Meet Mark
Happy Dental Patient

Mark was avoiding going to the dentist unless he really had to, putting it off for as long as he could. He felt anxious and scared, and he couldn't quite put his finger on clearly why that was. 

I worked with him for four One to One Sessions which helped him understand the root of his fear of the dentist and helped him resolve and transform it. His fear went from being a "8/10" to a "2-3/10" over the course of the 4 sessions.


He now has energy after seeing the dentist instead of feeling completely wiped out. This has given him much more peace of mind and a feeling of finally being in charge as a dental patient! 

Here is a 6 minute video where he shares about his experience:

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Two Guys
Your Two Paths
to Becoming a Calmer, Happier and more Confident You as a Dental Patient:


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Using the powerful methodology of Internal Family Systems + Fear Free Coaching Tools

Get to the root of your fear and set it FREE

£95 per
1 Hour Session


My Online Course:

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About Helena





Dental Anxiety Coach

Integral Master Coach™


Trauma Therapist


Helena Alder

  • Dentist, C.Odont, UiB Norway, 2004

  • Internal Family Systems Level 1

  • Integral Master Coach™, 2011

  • Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Provisional certification

  • Member of International Coach Federation, ICF, ACC Level 

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Having helped dental patients overcome their fears and embarrassment for over 15 years as a dentist in private practice, for the first time you will find all my expertise available through my work here at Fear The Dentist No More. 


My patients were raving about my gentle and effective approach, and many were helped to feel as if “the dentist” is just like any other person that is simply here to “help me with my teeth”.


When you have learnt and put into practice my scientifically proven strategies as well as my practical tools and techniques to help you take charge of your fear of the dentist and any embarrassment once and for all, you will be able to walk through the door to the dentist with inner calm and confidence.


With my expertise as an Integral Master Coach™ for over 10 years, and with additional qualifications in trauma resolution – Somatic Experiencing® and Internal Family Systems, I am honoured to have helped hundreds of dental patients take charge of and transform their fear of the dentist so that they could have more peace of mind once and for all.

This is also my wish for you! 


What Happy



"Working with Helena has completely transformed my dental experience. 

Through the process of acknowledging, being heard and having my feelings of fear and distress witnessed, I experienced an initial relief that developed into a deeper sense of trust as the process continued.  This in itself was amazing given that I knew Helena to be a dentist, and I have a general mistrust of dentists! 

However, Helena's knowledge of dentistry was also a great support as I found I could check technical information and therefore build trust with my own dentist, when Helena reassured me that the information I had been given was correct. 

She was also able to  suggest ways of communicating that enabled an easier connection with my dentist and less fear for me, around the work being done. 

I feel that being a skilled dentist, a trauma therapist and a professional coach is a powerful combination that allows Helena to offer specialist levels of support and healing to anyone suffering from dental trauma."

- Kate Friendship.